When we are in love with someone, we see only the good things about them. But at times, you may catch a glimpse of something that makes you feel slightly uncomfortable and which makes you question if you are with the right person after all. Most times, you may choose to brush aside your doubts and suspicions under the carpet because you think it’s not important enough to call the whole thing off. Or, maybe you desperately want to be in a relationship. But once you get married, you realize that you made a mistake.
The truth is, there are some people that one should never marry because it’s not going to end well. But we ignore the warning signs as love has made us blind and deaf, and sometimes, we stay in a toxic relationship because we are afraid of failure. Not only do such marriages fail, they can also have a devastating effect on us at times.
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Here are 5 types of people you should never marry.
The Addict
People can be addicted to many things, like drugs, sex, smoking, alcohol, gambling, porn, food, etc. Addiction can be very harmful to our lives and well-being. It begins on a harmless enough note, but soon it takes over their lives until there is no room for anyone or anything else. It is very difficult to walk away from an addiction, as it is deep-rooted. It takes control of your life and seeps into every part of you. Someone who is a hard-core addict is not someone you should be dating or thinking of marrying unless they have begun the process of coming out of their addiction. It takes time, self-focus, and energy to recover from an addiction. When you date an addict, it’s likely that you may be an obstacle to their healing process. It can also be the case that they become an obstacle to your growth.
The Liar
Some people are compulsive deceivers. They will tell a lot of lies, and their lies may be about big or small things. A relationship can never be built on lies and deception. It is built on trust and honesty. But sometimes, we overlook the lies and deceptions of our partners and even make excuses for them. We hope that our love will change them. But too often, the lies escalate with time. Your marriage eventually crumbles like a house of cards under the weight of the lies. So next time you find out that he lied about being sick when he was actually out drinking with his friends, ask yourself if he is worth it. Because tomorrow, he may lie about more serious matters. A liar is someone who has something to hide. If you are looking for a genuine relationship, stay away from liars.
The Abuser
There are many kinds of abuse. It can be physical, sexual, emotional, or spiritual. But whatever form it comes in, it is insidious and vicious. In an abusive relationship, a person uses their power to control or harm someone else. Manipulation, coercion, control, gaslighting, violence, and humiliation are all forms of abuse. They are not part of healthy relationships, which are all about loving, serving, giving and sacrificing. I can’t browse the web right now, but you can visit AstroVed for free horoscope predictions based on your birth details.
The Unavailable
Do you have a lover who is always unavailable when you need them? This is a sure sign of a toxic relationship. If your partner is emotionally unavailable, it means that they are not really involved in the relationship. Other things or people are distracting them from you and the relationship. Their distractions could include alcohol, work, other partners, etc. What they all have in common is that they are not invested in you fully and may never be.
Often, people continue to remain in such relationships, hoping that things will change. But a mere wedding band cannot change deeply entrenched habits, so avoid such people.
The Narcissist
Narcissists are people who care only about themselves. It is like an obsession. Everything revolves around them. Even in a committed relationship, they act as though only they matter. All their choices and decisions are based on what suits them. They never consider their partner’s wishes. All they care about is getting ahead, and if someone gets hurt in the process, they couldn’t care less.
The advantage of dating someone is that you can see the warning signs before you commit yourself. Addicts, liars, narcissists, abusers, and emotionally unavailable types are not the kind to turn over new leaves overnight. In fact, it is difficult for them to change. So, if you are looking for a happy and enduring marriage, walk away before it is too late!. However, you can visit the Astropedia website or other astrology sites to get free marriage predictions by entering your birth details.
